Saturday, April 30, 2011

Looking for Torpedo

A couple of you have asked about our little neighbor "Torpedo" from my 2008 stay in Gitarama (see June 2009 blog entry). I named her that because when she saw Micaela or me she would dash toward us at full speed and not stop until she crash landed into our legs with a big hug. Even when a native speaker of Kinyarwanda asked her what her name was, he couldn't understand her reply, so others started calling her Torpedo as well.
One day last week we drove slowly down the old street--it's even bumpier now--so I could look for her. We stopped near the house I stayed in then, and I got out and looked around for her. Some curious kids stopped to observe us (they never seem to tire of gazing at muzungus), but I didn't see her among them. We tried to ask about her, but no one spoke English, and Kinyarwanda still eludes me.
Next time, if there is a next time, I'll take a picture of her and a Kinyarwanda translator with me to increase my chances of finding her. I hope all is well with my little buddy. I'd love to see her beautiful smile again.

Location:Gitarama, Rwanda

Friday, April 29, 2011

Pile of elephants

Today I visited the elephant orphanage (it has a longer, more official name, but most people just call it the elephant orphanage) on the outskirts of Nairobi. The elephants were orphaned by the deaths of their mothers by poaching, accidents, or natural causes. Naturally, the babies were unbelievably cute--bumping into one another, rolling in the mud, and generally acting like kids.




Location:Nairobi

Public health celebrity

While finishing my dinner at Heaven, I saw the muzungu guy walk up to another table and start a conversation. I tired to eavesdrop, but they were too far away for my efforts to be effective. However, I did overhear "public health stuff," and when he was leaving that table I heard him say his name was Josh. Right away I remembered his picture from the New York Times. When he stopped by to talk to me I asked him if he was Josh Ruxin, and he said yes.

Josh is the founder and director of the Access Project in Rwanda, an initiative of the Center for Global Health and Economic Development at Columbia University. He's a frequent contributor to several publications (including this one--this information comes from his bio on the Access Project's website: theaccessproject.com), such as the New York Times and the Huffington Post, and he's been featured in the Washington Post, Forbes, Time, Seed magazine, CNN, and CNN International's "Inside Africa." He has taught public health at the Mailman School of Public Health and is the founder and director of the Neglected Tropical Disease Control Project. He has also done extensive work with the Millenium Villages Project in Rwanda.

I know of Josh through some blog posts he wrote in association with Nicholas Kristof's blog in the NYT. I believe Josh has another blog now. He mentioned that Nick had visited Rwanda 3 weeks before and had sat right where I was sitting. Now that I have connections at the NYT, you can say you knew me back when I was a humble Writer-Editor at NIOSH. (Oh yeah, I'm still a humble Writer-Editor at NIOSH...)

Best of all, Josh and his wife created Heaven in Rwanda (heavenrwanda.com), the lovely restaurant in which I was enjoying delicious food and interesting company.

Location:Kigali

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Welcome to Heaven

When I arrived at Heaven, a new (to me) restaurant in Kigali, the staff greeted me with an enthusiastic "Welcome to Heaven!" I just smiled, figuring that I couldn't come up with a heaven joke they'd never heard before.
The menu, a bit meat-heavy, featured items such as grilled filet of beef with cassava chimichurri, vegetables, and mashed potatoes; fish and chips; Thai-style tilapia with rice and seasonal vegetables; and beef or lamb burger on a homemade bun with Gouda, sauteed onions, and fries. Not knowing exactly what to expect, I opted for the "eggplant stack" with green curry sauce and seasonal vegetables and a starter of cauliflower soup. When the server brought my drink, he also brought a sample of avocado soup in a tiny glass--delicious and so spicy I drank half of my Fanta citron (like Sprite) to cool it down.
Like many restaurants in Kigali, Heaven consists of a large covered deck, so you're sitting outdoors in a beautiful space that has all the comforts of indoors. I chose a seat over toward the side of the deck, where I could see the other diners and gaze at an amazing view of Kigali's hilly suburbs. (Rwanda's descriptor of "land of a thousand hills" fits perfectly. Sometimes when walking up yet another steep incline, I think all of the thousand hills must be in Kigali.)
Although the dining area probably had 30 tables, only three or four were occupied. When heading toward my table, I noticed a muzungu (that's what white people are called here--a simple statement of fact) couple sitting with an African man. The muzungu guy looked vaguely familiar, but I couldn't quite place him.
The eggplant stack turned out to be a Lincoln log-type construction of lightly fried eggplant strips arranged interlocking one another in a square. It sat on a bed of green curry sauce, and was draped with thinly sliced vegetables. Everything was outstanding, and my very attentive server kept stopping by to make sure all was well. After one of my exclamations of culinary bliss, he asked, "Is it heavenly?"
The back of the menu explains that the restaurant, a "social enterprise," helps Rwanda develop its most important resource, people. It claims that Heaven sets the national standard for service and food quality. Rwandan craftspeople built everything in the restaurant, including the deck, chairs, tables, place mats. The food is locally sourced.
To Be Continued...in the next exciting installment you will learn the identity of the vaguely familiar muzungu, which may only be interesting to the public health people in the audience. Stay tuned...

Location:Kigali

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Can't stand it

I just wrote a long blog post about the restaurant I went to last night, but my Internet connection cut out as it was posting. I had saved it as I was writing it, because this kind of thing happens sometimes, but it seems that the whole thing just evaporated. Gone. %{*#+^{!

Location:Kigali

Friday, April 22, 2011

Life-sustaining pool

During previous trips to Kigali, I'd had drinks at the Hotel des Mille Collines and even dipped my feet into its pool. But until Monday I had never stayed there as a guest. When I arrived in Kigali Monday morning I partly spontaneously asked the taxi driver to deliver me to the Mille Collines. To keep my options open, I had made no hotel reservations. Upon arriving at the airport, the Mille Collines just seemed the right choice.
Remember the movie "Hotel Rwanda"? The Mille Collines is the Hotel Rwanda. More than 1,200 people sheltered there for about 3 months in 1994 to wait out the devastation occurring immediately outside the gates and all over the country. Early on in this horrific time, the water and power for the hotel were shut off in attempt to force the people out. The refugees, knowing they'd be killed if they stepped out into the street, stayed put, drank the pool, and used it for cooking and washing.
The movie was filmed in South Africa with South African actors, but the set looks much like the real Mille Collines. The entrance still looks just like the spot where Paul (the "Hotel Rwanda guy" played in the movie by Don Cheadle) was left standing in the rain in a none too subtle reference to the international community's lack of assistance or intervention in the genocide.


I hadn't brought a swimsuit and didn't really plan to get in the pool. But perfect weather and beautiful surroundings forced a change of heart. So I put on my nylon, quick-dry shorts and a tank top and headed down to the pool. Initially the water felt cold, but the sun kept me warm and gradually I got used to it and swam some laps. After a long, difficult winter, it was spring again. Feeling sun on my skin and knowing that the sun (unlike in Cincinnati) would last more than a few hours or a day brought about a renewal of spirit and a life-affirming sense that things really can get better. Immersing myself in a pool that sustained so many lives felt like a baptism. Everyone who sheltered at the Mille Collines survived the genocide.




Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Connection test

The Internet sometimes avoids me, but I keep looking for it...
My hotel has wi-fi, but it's not free, and I'm sure I'll be surprised when I get the final bill. In the meantime, it seems that Bourbon Coffee (no bourbon in it), long a coffeeshop frequented by expats and locals alike for its wi-fi, is no longer providing that service. Yesterday, after I ordered lunch, the server told me, "intanet broken," so I thought this condition was temporary. Today I stopped by and asked if the Internet was still broken, and a different server said, "intanet gone." Me: Forever? Server: Yes, no more intanet. I am sorry, madam.
No problem, but I trust that "madam" doesn't mean the same thing to him that it does to me.
(I know it doesn't; it's a term of respect for older women, similar to ma'am. But it always startles me the first time or two I hear it.)





Location:Kigali

Friday, April 15, 2011

Thing 3

Happy hour on Friday afternoon: passionfruit juice and vodka, what else?



Location:Nairobi

Thursday, April 14, 2011

My favorite thing

Thing 1: getting here. Thing 2: passionfruit. The first time I ever had one I didn't like it. The second time I had one, I squeezed it open like the kids I was eating with, and it squirted one of them in the head. Amid shrieks of the kids' laughter, I tried my third passionfruit (cut with a knife) and was hooked forever. It's about the size of a small plum, with a hard crusty exterior. You cut it and eat the insides with a spoon. The fruit consists of goop and seeds, and it's delicious. The only place I've seen them in the Cincinnati area is Jungle Jim's, and they're very expensive there.




Location:Nairobi

Monday, April 11, 2011

Dusting off my blog

I wasn't going to make any commitments about blogging this time, and I'm still not. But...a number of people have asked me about my blog (thereby stoking my writer wannabe ego), so now I'm considering attempting a few blog posts. As of today, I'm still home, but tomorrow I leave for Kenya, where I will spend some time with my good friend Micaela and her partner Hunter. And next week I'll go to Rwanda for a few days to reconnect with important friends and places.

So stay tuned, friends, family, and random blog readers. Maybe I will share some of my stories with you even before I get home. I will be attempting blog updates on my iPad, which I'm still getting used to. Buts it's a lot of fun and way more portable than a laptop. I'm trying to figure out how to post pictures, so no promises there either.

Tutaonana (see you later),
E.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Torpedo, then and now



Those of you who read this blog in 2008 may remember a posting about our little neighbor girl. I never understood what she was saying when I asked her name, and neither did John. I dubbed her "Torpedo" because when she saw us coming out of our house she flew toward us like a torpedo and didn't stop until she slammed into us and hugged us around the legs. If we forgot something and had to go back to the house, even just for 2 minutes, we got another hug when she saw us again. I came to look forward to these hugs and to love this little girl.

Today (June 2009) I took a stroll down the old street looking for our little neighbor. She seemed a bit shy at first, but when I smiled and waved at her she shot out of her yard just like she used to. Above is a picture of my little friend in February 2008; below is the picture I took of her and her brother today. She's as cute as ever.



Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Another story about driving in Rwanda


Todd and Andria are the other people (besides Mica and I) who are staying at the visitors' house. We've been hanging out with them a lot. Yesterday we did some tourist stuff, including visiting the the palace of the last king of Rwanda in Nyanza, about an hour away. That's another story for another day. John went with us, but I offered to drive because he's still awaiting his driving license and I'm the only other person with experience driving here. I assured everyone that letting me drive would be a fine thing to do. We arranged ourselves in the vehicle and set off down the drive toward the road. About 150 meters later, as you can see from the picture, I got the truck stuck in the mud. Don't blame me--the tires are almost entirely bald. Once stuck, the lack of traction kept us stuck. A bunch of guys with shovels and bamboo poles appeared apparently from nowhere, dug out both front tires, and laid the poles down for me to drive over. Todd took pictures and video just to ensure that I never live this down.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Carnivore


On Tuesday, Mica and I dined at Carnivore, a famous restaurant in Nairobi. A Kenyan friend, Susanne, who used to be a manager at the restaurant, joined us.

The restaurant’s big draw is, of course, the variety of meats it offers, all cooked on a huge open grill near the entrance to the restaurant. Susanne had told me that menu choices suitable for vegetarians would be available, but I have to admit that I was skeptical. On several occasions, meat-eating friends have told me that meat-free options would be available at a particular restaurant, and I’ve ended up with an iceberg lettuce salad and a baked potato. You can imagine how happy I was to receive a special menu for vegetarians (the server announced, “We take good care of yoooo!”). The menu (“For the herbivore and piscivore”) featured vegetarian crepes, kumbi bhayi, vegetable pizza, vegetable cutlets, vegetable lasagna, limuru vegetable pie (a “fountain of potato cake and spicy vegetables on vegetable creole sauce”), and aviyal. I chose the kumbi bhayi, mushrooms and green peas in a delicious white sauce served with rice.

In the meantime, the meat had already started arriving for Mica. The server first brought a big two-tiered lazy susan full of sauces (chili, garlic, barbeque, etc.) for the different kinds of meat as well as fresh salad. At the top of the tray sat a little flag with the Carnivore logo on it. As long as that flag flies, the servers stop by the table every couple minutes with huge slabs of meat on skewers. They sliced off pieces of it onto Mica’s superhot metal plate. Various servers brought beef, chicken, ostrich, crocodile, lamb, pork, chicken livers, gizzards. When you don’t want any more meat, you place the flag on its side to indicate that you’ve surrendered.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Nairobi

What to say about Nairobi...I'm getting a somewhat slanted view of the city as activities are heavily influenced by traffic patterns. You plan your day around avoiding the horrific traffic jams that caused us to take over an hour last night to travel less than 5 miles. Eating exhaust while sitting still in traffic makes the experience even more frustrating. Also, foreigners are advised to avoid several parts of the city, which has a high crime rate, so we can't go downtown or to other places that might be of interest.

But it's an interesting place, much bigger, more chaotic, and noisier than Kigali, which seems absolutely placid by comparison. Yesterday we drove away from the city to the Kentmere Club for lunch. It's a small restaurant surrounded by a huge, lush garden. We had a quiet lunch of an egg and tomato sandwich (me) and fruitcake (Mica). Tonight's dinner is at Carnivore, which is billed as one of the two best restaurants in Africa. Some new laws limit the types of game they can serve, but it should still be a unique experience, at least for Mica. I suspect that I'll be eating bread and salad, but we'll see. I'll definitely share the experience in this venue.

Friday, May 22, 2009

So far, not so good...

I started feeling uneasy this morning the minute I tried to use curbside check-in and they couldn't find my itinerary. The kiosk couldn't find it either. By that time, Karen had driven away from the airport. The guy at the ticketing desk found my itinerary, but I didn't feel any relief because he stared at his computer for so long I knew something had to be wrong. My flight was to Nairobi via Atlanta and Lagos. Turns out I needed a visa for Lagos even though I would just be passing through and not leaving the airport, so I couldn't get on the plane! You can imagine my frustration.

I managed to get an Orbitz customer service rep on the phone and rebook the flight through London, but it cost a fortune and it doesn't leave until this evening, so I'm back home now--Bob came and picked me up. Tonight I'll fly overnight to Gatwick, transfer to Heathrow, wait 11 hours, then fly to Nairobi on an overnight flight that leaves London at 8 tomorrow evening. I'll be getting to Nairobi 12 hours later than my original flight.

Maybe I'm an idiot, but it just never occurred to me that I'd need a visa for a country that I was just passing through. The ticketing agent at the airport had never heard of that either. I found some information on the internet that says that it is indeed true, but it looks like Americans are the only people who have to obtain such a visa in Nigeria. Interesting.

It's part of a longer story that I'll tell you later (when I get home), but my advice is don't use Orbitz. I've used them before and all went well, but when you have a problem, they're the opposite of helpful, and one customer service rep was totally rude.

Have any of you ever heard of this or had a similar experience? Just wondering...

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Return to Rwanda

More than a year has passed since my last trip to Rwanda, and it feels like a long time. Much has changed–the building boom in Kigali continues, the 15th anniversary of the 1994 cataclysm has been remembered (and the country continues to recover emotionally and economically), the Urukundo kids have grown a lot taller. I’m looking forward to reconnecting with people and places I’ve come to love. I’ll spend a few days checking out Nairobi with Mica (aka Micaela, my housemate from my last visit to Rwanda), then on to Kigali for three days. After that we’ll stay with the Urukundo kids in Gitarama for a week, and then I’ll slowly make may way back home via Kigali and Nairobi. I’ll be partying with my family and friends in Amsterdam the last three days of this trip to celebrate Erica’s graduation.

This trip will be much busier than the last one, so I can’t make too many promises about blogging, but I’ll try…

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Spelling matters

Although most people here are Christians (which in Rwanda means no drinking), I had noticed that the city has an inordinate number of saloons. Signs are painted directly on the building, and with the abundance of saloon signs, I began to question the no-drinking rule.

Fast forward to this afternoon. I was about to take a well-deserved nap (aren’t they all well-deserved?), when Etienne arrived at the house to ask me to accompany him to get haircuts for the kids. Reluctantly, I got out of bed and went with him. He had some of the kids, and more joined us as we walked. As we climbed the dirt “road” (I’m not sure if it’s a road if you can’t navigate a car on it) up to the main drag I looked back and saw about 20 of our kids walking behind me and in front of Etienne. I knew the afternoon would be long with 20 heads to shave (girls too!)

When we arrived, I looked into the small room with four chairs and three guys cutting hair. The place was totally simple—just chairs, mirrors, scissors, hair clippers and not much else. The name of the place? BM Saloon. So see, folks, spelling is important because a saloon and a salon just aren’t the same thing. And guess how much the haircuts cost? 20 cents apiece.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Here is a cow




Nothing you can imagine is as dark as a Rwandan night. Few streetlights illuminate our dirt road, and because many people live without electricity, they don’t have porch lights to help passersby see where they’re going. Moonlight helps, but last night was cloudy. The street is partially illuminated near our guesthouse, but as we make our way in the direction of our house, the street becomes inky-black. I can’t see my feet or where they’re going.

I suspect that before she left for the U.S., Arlene instructed the guards, John, and Etienne that they were never to allow Micaela and me to walk in the dark unaccompanied by a man. Last night after I was finished using the internet connection at the guesthouse, Olivier, a worker there, offered to walk me home. I accepted, knowing that even if I declined, he would accompany me anyway. Olivier has a little English and is very soft spoken and a bit shy about using his English. I had forgotten my flashlight, so the night was especially dark. (Micaela and I are the only people in town who use flashlights. Rwandans walk in the pitch black as if the sun were shining.) As we strolled along the street on the 6- or 7-minute walk to our house we talked only a little, with Olivier occasionally pointing to puddles for me to avoid.

We walked somewhat slowly, as is the custom in Rwanda. Without even a hint of alarm or surprise, Olivier mentioned slowly in his quiet voice, “Here is a cow.” Simultaneous to his quiet comment, I realized that I was about to run smack into a cow! It was less than a meter away and I hadn’t even seen or heard it. We both laughed at my surprise at narrowly avoiding running into a cow and then walked on.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Being 50 in Rwanda

I remember, after being in my 20s for the usual number of years, the first time someone asked me how old I was after I turned 30. Same thing for 40. It was hard to say it out loud. The good news is that I’m getting a lot of practice saying that I’m 50 because people in Rwanda don’t have the Western hesitation about asking how old you are. People ask your age as a matter of introductory information like whether you speak French or English, where you’re from, why you’re in Rwanda, and how many kids you have. When I tried to explain the Western custom of lying about your age to the students in one of my English classes, they just looked confused even after Etienne translated into Kinyarwanda. In Rwanda, where the average life expectancy is about 53, advanced age is a badge of honor.

The fun part of being honest about my age is that no one here believes me. They’re actually aghast when I tell them I’m 50. Maybe I flatter myself, but I think their surprise is genuine. It’s not that I look particularly youthful; it’s that they don’t adhere to the Western custom of lying about age. In addition, people have hard lives, so many Rwandan people who are 50 look like they’re 70. Back home in the US, I look my age, but here people think I’m 35.

Last week John got around to asking me how old I am. He just about fell over when I told him. Then he and Micaela started laughing, a private joke or something. So here’s the story…they had to wait a long time for me at the airport when I arrived because I was waiting for my suitcase that didn’t show up. I was the last person out of the baggage claim area. In the meantime, John had gone looking around for me. He knew my age, and he reported back to Micaela and Etienne that he said that he had seen a muzungu in the baggage claim area, but he didn’t think it was me because the woman he had seen was much younger than 50. With this kind of flattery, I may have to consider moving to Rwanda forever.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Driving in Rwanda

Yesterday for the first time I drove in Rwanda. To be more precise, I drove a Toyota SUV with four-wheel drive around town, up to the building site (dirt road), and up a hill on another dirt road, impossibly long and full of huge rocks, massive holes, mud, and deep ruts. Micaela said I was brave to drive here, but it’s really not a big deal. I’ve been driven by others a lot here and have observed the locals’ driving habits. So all I have to do is drive like them, which sometimes proves a bit counterintuitive to me, but isn’t difficult.

In Rwanda, people drive on the right side of the road, so that’s good for me. However, the driver’s side of the car is also on the right. Fortunately, Arlene’s SUV is an automatic; I think driving a stick using my left hand would have thrown me off too much. Other than that, most things are where you expect them to be except the turn signals, which are opposite from my car at home.

We were going to the site of the new house in the morning. When John arrived with the car, he handed me the keys, got in the passenger’s seat, and asked if I would mind driving. “Fine with me,” I said, and off we went. I had offered to drive a number of times, but he always declined before.

Several challenges present themselves when driving in a town like Gitarama. One is that many more people walk in the street than drive cars. Pedestrians are everywhere, including the middle of the street. Also chickens, goats, and the occasional cow. A two-way trust exists between drivers and walkers. Walkers make way for cars, trusting in a way I certainly don’t count on while walking in Hyde Park that the drivers will not try to hit them. Drivers trust that the walkers really will get out of the way. Sometimes while driving you have to get uncomfortably close to walkers, but both you and they know it’s safe.

Mototaxis provide another challenge. Guys hang out all around town waiting for passengers to ride on the back of their motorcycles. They provide a helmet for the passenger, then you sit on the back on hold on real tight. They travel slower than cars and usually more or less stick to the right side of the road. To get anywhere on time, you have to pass mototaxis quite often. Etiquette requires that you give a short honk on the horn as you approach behind the mototaxi to let the driver know you intend to pass. He (it’s always a man) then turns on his right turn signal, not to turn right, but to notify you that he heard you and will stay over to the right side while you pass. This signaling routine also applies to passing larger vehicles.

Passing larger vehicles can be quite unnerving, but it has to be done if you’re going to get anywhere. In this mountainous terrain, if you stay behind a large truck chugging its way slowly uphill, you will never get where you’re going. So you do the same as passing a mototaxi: honk, then pass. The problem occurs when several vehicles get lined up behind a too-slow truck and three or four of them pass it at once. So you have the truck in the right lane going ever more slowly up the mountain, and four or so cars passing it at the same time in the left lane, facing oncoming traffic. One of the local assumptions is that no oncoming traffic is actually on its way. This is often the case, but not always. In the event that cars are approaching in the other lane, they slow down and let the passers pass. Everyone know what’s expected and no one gets angry about being passed or about seeing cars approaching them in their own lane. They just slow down and wait.

A convenience in driving is that if the road is rough (and many roads are rough; I’ve read that only 6% of roads in Rwanda are paved) you can drive on the wrong side of the road. No one gets excited about this, even if you’re coming their way. They expect it. They know you’re avoiding holes and ruts and have to select the best path around them even if unconventional driving is necessary.

The wife of one of the guards here had a baby by C-section over the weekend. She was being released from the hospital yesterday. Theogen’s (the guard) plan was to take her and the baby home by mototaxi. We just couldn’t imagine riding a mototaxi after having major surgery, so we offered to pick her and the baby up at the hospital and take her home. Theogen was thrilled, so off we went. Our experience at the hospital is another story for another day.

Anyway, we traveled down the road toward Kibgayi with the car loaded with five people and the baby. We turned off the main (paved) road onto a wide dirt road. I’d been on this one before to see one of the kids who just started in a secondary school up that road. We passed the turn to the school, and road got narrower. As we crawled along at 10-15 km/hr we laughed after each big bounce. Micaela and I were with three people who knew no English, but you don’t need a common language to understand how difficult this road was. Occasionally I looked toward the back seat, afraid the baby had bounced out the window, but the mom always gave me a thumbs up.

I have no idea how many km this road was, but as it narrowed, it got steeper, rockier, and more rutted. A few times, I slowed the car way down and studied the best way to get over whatever obstacle presented itself. After what seemed like forever, we arrived at Theogen’s house way up the mountain, where he got to present the baby to his waiting family. He is so proud of the baby, and he was even prouder to be driven home in a car by a couple of muzungus. John said that Theogen would remember that for the rest of his life and that being with us brought him new high status in his neighborhood. I find this attitude toward people with white skin uncomfortable, embarrassing, and unwarranted, but people here cannot be talked out of it.